Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts

Monday, April 17, 2023

23 Hard Things in 2023 - UPDATE

In addition to my larger goals which were expressed at the beginning of the year, I have expressed the intention to attack 23 hard things during this year. These are things that I believe will add something of value to my life or just need to be done but I have struggled to prioritize. I'm ready to check in and evaluate my progress!

1). Write 12 snail mail letters. I am actually known for not writing letters but have felt convicted that I should be communicating in this form to people who have touched my life in a super special way. To date, I have sent off 4 letters. 4/12 done!

2). Initiate three dates with hubby. No progress yet.

3). Purge 1200 items. At this very moment, I have purged 864 from my home. This does not count food items used in the "Use It Up" Challenge nor the scrapbook items used in my journaling endeavor. There is still a long way to go but I can see and feel the difference. I sometimes get frustrated or impatient with my progress but, overall, am quite pleased. Being able to see a difference is motivating. I press on.

4). Read 48 books. I started out VERY slow with this goal but am now on a roll. At this moment I have read 18 of the 48 books.

5). 12 of the 48 books read need to be books I own. Five of the 18 books that I have read are ones that I already own. I am making great progress with this goal. My larger goal is to have read every book that I own. I can make this happen. 5/12.

6). Have one adventure per month. YUP. For me, an adventure is doing something new or something that takes me out of my comfort zone. In January, I went to an esthetician and got an amazing facial. In February, I attended a lecture at a museum. In March, I visited gyms and did a workout at one. Thus far, in April, I attended Easter service at an Anglican church. That won't be my last adventure for the month. I'm building momentum! :)

7). Make and maintain a minimum of six monthly journals. I am up to date on my journaling. I have completed three journals, thus far, representing January, February, and March. I am working on April's journal, day by day.

8). Make a minimum of 36 blog entries. This will make my 8th blog entry this year. Not bad, not bad.

9). Repair camera. DONE. I was afraid that something had gone really wrong with my camera and when I experience fear and shame I then seek to avoid addressing the issue. I have not used my camera in over a year. As frequently happens, the issue that I was afraid of addressing turned out to be simple to address. I can be so ridiculous sometimes. I purchased a new rechargeable battery for my camera and that did the trick!

10). Repair mandolin and learn one song. Not yet.

11). Dance. I have had one good dance session in the kitchen when no one else was at home. MUST. KEEP. DANCING.

12). Learn to tiptoe (move like a child). DONE. I did it!!!

13). Learn to skip (move like a child). Not yet.

14). Do one cartwheel, although a round off will do (move like a child). Certainly not yet.

15). Remove tree from front yard. DONE. The front yard is now heartbreakingly empty but the much needed task has been completed.

16). Repair front porch stairs. NOPE.

17). Write letter to Carole's mother. The rough draft has been written.

18). Take vitamins a minimum of 275 days of the year. At this point, 106 days into the year, I have an 84% success rate. Stating this goal so definitively has really helped me focus. I have had 100% success over the last month!

19). Floss teeth a minimum of 275 days of the year. I had a really slow start while attempting to develop this habit but am on a roll. Presently, I have a 57.5% success rate. It WILL improve!

20). Track expenditures a minimum of 275 days of the year. I have a 99% success rate on this one!!!

21). Do not go to Andy's alone. I scored myself some Andy's frozen custard alone one time this year, in January. I have been tempted a LOT. I am pleased with my progress. I'm going to keep fighting the good fight!

22). Try 15 new smoothie, salad, or vegetarian recipes. I haven't tried one YET.

23). Complete at least 75% of Balance the Sword, Volume One. I am making great progress on this one. Getting started was the hardest part. I am enjoying it now. Having set such a clearly defined goal has been very motivational. I am a quarter of the way to reaching my goal!

Although I had established goals at the beginning of the year and some of these hard things overlap with those goals, I began 23 Hard Things in 2023 just one month ago. I am satisfied with my progress. I've got this!!!

Tuesday, March 28, 2023

Could Have Been Me

There is a song that is accompanying a plethora of reels on IG that I find motivational. The song is "Could Have Been Me" by The Struts. Most content producers are using this song to accompany reels that show them accomplishing things that they have dreamed of accomplishing, or at least, working toward making those dreams come true. And, I see why. The song moves forward powerfully, optimistically yet defiantly, and the lyrics are motivational. 

"Don't wanna live as an untold story. Rather go out in a blaze of glory. I can't hear you, I don't fear you. ... Wrapped in your regret, what a waste of blood and sweat. I wanna taste love and pain, wanna feel pride and shame. I don't wanna take my time, don't wanna waste one line. I wanna live better days, never look back and say, "Could have been me. It could have been me." ... Don't wanna live as an unsung melody. I'd rather listen to the silence telling me, "I can't hear you. I won't fear you."

It speaks of that desire to live the story we are yearning to live, dreaming of living, and not letting strictures bind us, limit us. It references the fear that we face when doing something beyond those limitations but defiantly shouts it down. I have almost done many things and at this stage in my life as I look back on those things I think, "It could have been me." There are things I still aspire to. I have dreams. Recognizing my tendency to take actions towards goals but not always seal the deal, I want to set myself up to REALLY succeed, to accomplish those dreams. I want my story to be told in it's full glory.

So, what do I imagine my story should entail? What it would mean for me to 'go out in a blaze of glory.'? I have images that flit through my mind as that song plays, moving like a reel on IG, that represent my 'blaze of glory'. Those images are representative of the following glorious things:

*Defeat the 'hoard.' 

I want to strip back all the layers of belongings leaving only those which contribute the most to my life. I want to get in right relationship with my material possessions and make space for the people and things that mean the most to me. I desire to simplify and, by that, I mean not be bound to these possessions. I want to make them serve me, not me enslaved to them. I want to be free.

*Be debt free. 

I want to eliminate my debt; ideally, this would include my mortgage but I'll consider it 'glory' if all other debt is conquered. Again, I want to be free; not bound to others. I want to stop limiting my options because I have committed myself to others through these obligations. Yes, I want to be free.

*Take my EPIC American road trip.

I want to see things, do things, experience things, and learn things. I want to meet new people and idea; I want to be challenged. This, again, symbolizes freedom to me, in many ways. I can feel the sun on my face and the wind rushing through my hair just thinking about road tripping. Yes, freedom, in many ways.

*Be strong.

I want to reduce the limitations of my body by strengthening it. This will open up possibilities of all that I can do, experience, and learn. It will free me from the bondage of physical pain. It will honor me and my journey and all that my body has done for me during this journey of life. It will honor my Maker who gifted me this vessel that has served me so well.

I want my story to be one of conquering challenges and overcoming obstacles that interfere with that earthly sense of freedom. I want to sing my song, tell my story. I want to fight the good fight moving closer to my vision of freedom and a life well-lived. I want to experience the pain and the shame but not be mired down by it. I want to revel in the experiences of love and the satisfaction of a job well done.

I don't want to be saying "Could have been me" so I will change all these expressed "I want's" into "I will" and then, through consistent focused action, "I have." I will face the pain and shame and fear that is sure to accompany this journey boldly, defiantly. I will live my unique story and sing my distinctive song!