Thursday, August 18, 2016

Living and Learning Mom Style

Creating a lifestyle of learning requires everyone in the family to participate.  It is not something that is just for the kids; it is the way that family life is constructed.  It is imperative that parents stay intentionally engaged in the process of learning.  They need to be attune to the world around them and they need to be curious.  They need to ask questions and actively seek to make connections.  They need to identify subject matter that really get them excited and pursue them.  Doing so obviously models for their children what the process of learning is and that it is an ongoing process, one that doesn't exist merely within a single setting and persists past graduation.  It also nurtures the spirit of the parent and energizes them allowing them to better able create a stimulating environment.
So, in that vain, I had some opportunities over the last month to further my education.

While in Kansas visiting the hubby we stopped at a cemetery.  I am not certain why but I do find cemeteries fascinating.  This particular cemetery proved to be fascinating, in part, due to significant number of headstones for young children who died in about a one year period.  Some were newborns who lived for three days or less.  Others were older infants or toddlers.  This provoked my curiosity - why had so many children died during this time period?  Was there an epidemic of some sorts or maybe some negative environmental factors that jeopardized the health of these kids?  I did some internet searches and didn't find any clues but I am keeping my eyes and ears open; I hope to make a connection one day in the future.





I scoped out the old railway depot on post and noted that on the current railroad tracks there is a train loaded down with gear ready to head out for training exercises.  I was struck by just how much is needed to prepare for deployment.







Herb and I went on a hike at a nearby natural site.  I love to hike; to walk through a space allows me to really take note of the sights and the sounds.  And it gives me the opportunity to piddle around with my camera - a favorite past time of mine.




There is an inchworm on this flower!!!
Landscapes such as this fuel my imagination.  I wonder what it was like for the earliest residents of this land.
























 And I was able to add the dickcissel to my bird list!



I also had the chance to take in some historical sites and information.  I saw the first territorial capital of Kansas...

and went to the Brown v Board of Education National Historic Site.  I went to this site on my drive back home.  I almost talked myself out of going, telling myself that I should wait until I have the boys with me.  Then I gave myself a good talking to, issuing myself a reminder that my education is valuable.  I stopped and was so glad that I did.  I will take the boys there soon.


While in this hall I was surrounded by footage of folks making hateful exclamations.  It was tough to hear.


I was deeply moved by this particular exhibit.  While taking my sociology and psychology classes I had read of this study.  To actually see one of the dolls stirred something deep within.  And I had the opportunity to make a new connection.  I had learned of this study and, of course, I had studied Brown v Board of Education but I had not fully connected the two.  I had not realized that this study was crucial in convincing the courts that "separate but equal"  was not really equal.  I may have been told that before, I may have read that before but I didn't remember it.  I get it know.  I really truly get it and now I will not forget it.



I loved the kindergarten classroom!









I went to a textile exhibit at a local museum.  It was a special event.  They had spinning and weaving demonstrations and even crafts for the kids.  It was cool.








This exhibit entitled "Tilted Sky" was so cool.  My pictures don't do it justice but, trust me, it was super cool.  It is string running from one side of the hall to the other for the entire length of the hallway.



Kids doing textile-related crafts.

I was fortunate enough to run into these cute kiddos and the adults that they were attached to.  I even got to have lunch with this grand-niece and grand-nephew.
Outside the museum is this fun installation.  I love seeing how it morphs.






In further hopes of rejuvenation I had lunch with some pals.  I went to a new tea shop.  The company was fantastic, the food was fun, and the decor was absolute eye candy.  Inspirational!








And, finally, look at these wonderful little treats from my very own backyard!

We are in the midst of so many transitions and I feel a bit anxious and tired but these experiences ground me, inspire me, help me feel fulfilled and give me something just a little more to offer up to my family.

Saturday, August 6, 2016

Lifestyle Of Learning 2016 Edition: Volume Nineteen

Actually, all education is self-education.  A teacher is only a guide, to point out the way, and no school, no matter how excellent, can give you education.  What you receive is like the outlines in a child's coloring book.  You must fill in the colors yourself.
-Louis L'Amour

July 24 - August 6

A brief outline of a handful of days:

Sunday July 24:  Maceo spent the night at Carson's house last night.  I picked him up today then he hung out with a friend from out of town who was visiting.  In the evening he had three hours of Peter Pan rehearsal.  Bishop spent fours hours hanging out with friends at the pool.

Monday July 25:  Maceo went to the dentist for a cleaning.  We learned that he must have his wisdom teeth extracted - ugh.  He also had more Peter Pan rehearsals (1 1/2 hours).

Tuesday July 26:  Maceo went to Colton's house for a sleepover.  Bishop spent four hours hanging out at Hunter and Cooper's house.  He also spent a considerable amount of time researching music and sounds.  He is collecting ideas and samples to use in making music.  He is researching music a lot and his wheels are always turning!!!

Wednesday July 27:  I picked up Maceo from Colton's and both of the boys went to the doctor's office for a check up.  Maceo and other members of the Thoroughly Modern Millie Jr. cast performed excerpts from the show for a special event for local teachers and he had two hours of Peter Pan rehearsal.

Thursday July 28:  Maceo had three hours of Peter Pan rehearsal.

Friday July 29:  This - rapping deconstructed.

Saturday July 30:  Maceo went to Carson's lake house with Noah, Tommie and Ashton; boating, tubing, etc.

Sunday July 31:  I picked Maceo up around 4pm.  He began writing his troupe essay then went to a sleepover at Jacob Z.'s.  Bishop went to swimming pool with Love's (at least 6 hours at the pool and 8 overall with the Love's).

Monday August 1:  I picked Maceo up at Jacob Z's.  We went to City Butcher BBQ, a joint that makes it's own sausages.  Scouts resumed for Bishop.  Maceo finished his troupe essay then he went on date to the fair with Claire.  I learned that Maceo wants to get married (unlike what he used to say as a child) and he predicts he will be the second of my children to get married.  Interesting.

Tuesday August 2:  Maceo had troupe auditions.  Learned a dance combination and performed it.  Performed song from Ragtime and monologue from ???.  He submitted his essay and went to Pan rehearsal.  Maceo received books that he ordered - John by Annie Baker and Sex, Drugs by Eric Bogosian.  We watched a smidge of a comedy show that was highly liberal.  I got agitated so we had vigorous conversation.  Come to find out, Maceo was less content focused than I would have surmised.  He was more interested in the comedic process and tools and timing.  Bishop did an amazing job helping us hear each other.  I love these moments!

Wednesday August 3:  Bishop figured out how to use the metronome.  He is still researching beats.  Are there songs without beats?  Maceo had Brenna over.  We went to Pizza Inn.  Tommie came over.  Bishop grilled hot links etc.  Maceo did the shopping for dinner.  He searched the internet to get recommendation for bbq sauce.  Maceo listened to a smidge of the Mark Levine show I was listening to and identified logical fallacies of caller (the "system" is unjust; wrong for us to want small government because big government helps).  Bishop is researching fashion and its history.  Mamie Eisenhower popularized pink for women.  Black and blue were popular colors during WWII.  Among other tidbits.  Maceo made both YES troupe and Teen Players acting troupe!!!

Thursday August 4:  Maceo and I attended a troupe meeting with all the details to do with the upcoming educational year.  Herb came to town for doctor's appointments.

Friday August 5:  Maceo went on a second date with Claire.  They went to First Friday Art Walk.